1922 HASHWAYS
The other night I went to an NA
meeting with my friend Pat.
It’s basically the meeting for
Drug addicts- based on the 12 step program.
My friend sponsors his own
meeting- and also attends and is real active in the group.
Before I came to Jersey [this
visit] I was in touch with my friend John David [heart surgery] and he has been
wanting to open up a half way house in C.C.
I also picked up [by accident] a
book defending the 12 step program from a Christian perspective.
All in all I have been
learning/reading on the 12 step program.
But this was my first actual
meeting- so I was looking forward to it.
It was a really good format- from
the things I have read/seen- the key to success is the basic principle- found
in the bible- that says ‘confess your faults one to another and pray one for another
that you may be healed’. [James]
The meetings are times/places
where people share- they speak about their struggles- their victories- and
others see that some have been clean for many years- 20-30 or more.
When an addict sees another
‘addict’- who has ‘overcome the mark of the beast and the number of his name’
[Revelation] he then sees that there are indeed a whole company of people who
have come thru this- and are on the other side- clean.
All of these things are biblical
principles.
As I sat in the meeting- I had an
interesting experience.
The table in front of my chair
had the names of some of the local restaurants written on them.
I’m not sure why- maybe they
support the meetings- the meeting was held in the old Catholic church- Our Lady
of Fatima- that I attended for CCD classes as a kid.
The church is a couple of blocks from
my old Elementary school- Horace Mann- and I used to walk over every day for
class.
The NA meeting was in the same
part of the church that my CCD classes were in.
So- after 34 years- I found
myself- for the first time- back in the old class.
I had a friend/schoolmate back in
those days.
His name was Glenn Hashway.
His parents own a deli- famous-
right down the block.
I have heard that Glenn has been
an addict for many years.
A friend of mine was in jail with
him one year- he didn’t know I knew him- but I did.
From what I heard- he was in big
trouble- looking at many years in prison- if he made bail he was going to try
and leave the country type of thing.
So- this was his story.
On the table in front of me- the
name of the restaurant/deli that was written- was ‘Hashways’.
Yea- it just so happened that
this was the spot where his family had the name of their deli.
Sad story for my old friend-
seeing how his life turned out.
Today I’m supposed to make a trip
to NYC- I need to check my phone for messages.
I can do the trip on my own- but
it’s been so many years- I don’t know all the right subways and buses to catch.
So Patrick is supposed to go with
me.
I did want to say a few words
about the debate- it has been such a hot political issue- and I do talk about
that stuff.
But- on this trip I’m trying to
avoid too much politics.
I took a ride yesterday afternoon
down to Jersey City- got out at a park on the corner of Manhattan Ave and Kennedy
Blvd.
Yeah- not really the best spot to
hang out when you’re from out of state.
But I wanted to just walk around
the area.
As I walked thru the park- I asked
some guy sitting on a bench ‘what’s the name of this park’?
He told me ‘Persian field’.
Now- I know it’s not Persian-
like Asian [or at least I don’t think things have changed that much!]
But at the entrance of the park I
saw a statue to some war hero or something- I assume the name is Pershing- you
know- some past war guy type thing.
Anyway- I walked thru the park
taking some pictures.
Some kids hanging out and all-
wondering why I was taking pictures.
I talk one of a little blue bag-
small- you could fit about 3 aspirins in it.
It was a Crack bag- empty.
I saw 2 more while walking
around- wasn’t even looking for them.
I saw some nice animal statues and
a few squirrels.
I continued the ride- went down past
journal square- and went a few more miles- came back on Tonnele ave.
Passed the old Pulaski Skyway-
and saw my 2nd homeless guy- begging for money on the road.
I usually don’t give the guys
with signs any money- but being I haven’t seen too many- I gave him 5 bucks.
Yeah- the old area looks okay-
still worn and torn after many years.
Sort of like an old war horse-
battle scarred but keeps on going.
I read a verse in John chapter 17
this morning.
Jesus said ‘ Ihave revealed your
name to the men that you gave to me out of the world’.
I have read this chapter many
times over the years.
Jesus speaks about the desire for
unity in the church.
He talks about his disciples as
the special people God brought to him along the journey.
I have run into a few already-
I’m trying to hear God- to speak and connect to the ones that he’ gave me ‘out
of the world’ –or ‘from New Jersey’.
Yeah- there are always at least a
few- people who are too on a journey- and it’s important for us [you and me] to
speak the right words- to communicate the Father [God] to them.
At the end of the day- that’s
what lasts.
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